Nicole and I

I think being the younger one of the family has its privileges. We or at least I, would set a lower bar for Ethan. In my eyes it is fair due to his tender age. E.g. When Nicole spills drinks on the sofa, I would be cross with her but if little Chub does it, I wouldnt show as much displeasure though the magnitude of damage to the sofa could be more significant.

Big Cutie Pie sees it all and she would occasionally make some sweeping remarks " Mummy, I think you are nicer to the younger one. I wish I could be a baby still "

Though half jokingly she made such statement, I know I need to constantly remind myself to shower Big Cutie Pie with more praises, just the way she likes it. To counter her statement, I added " That is not true. Sweetheart. I am equally nice to you in other ways. You get to eat a full serving of ice cream while Chubby only gets a spoonful. We go for movies but Chubby doesnt get to join us. You just had one big piece of chocolate cake and Chubby only had one tiny slice. Do you still want to be a baby? "

That took care of her emotional needs momentarily :)